How you can have it all

I must say i haven’t been an easy reading for my bosses, they just couldn’t understand, how is it possible to be immune to any kind of

monetary compensation

You know the moment when extroverts hear the next level prize will be…. and they jump and scream and off they go and you just stare there eyes wide open and hope this embarrassing moment to stay as short as possible!

I felt a long time that there probably was nothing in the world that could make me literally

„ sizzle“ of excitement

What would motivate me to be persistent without struggling? I was wrong! There was a lot i was actually  motivated by, i just refused to achieve it in a ways i was asked, because  i could not approve these.  Too much wrong kind of pressure. Yes,  they offered me compensation over this pain. I did not buy it. There were things i  highly enjoyed!

Here is how to find them!

What do YOU usually do when you procrastinate?

I found myself in Pinterest! Sewing dolls or drawing patterns!

Here is what one smart man Jeremy Bentham who was an English philosopher has to say about it.
The „the greatest happiness principle“ or the principle of utility, forms the cornerstone of all Bentham’s thought. By “happiness”, he understood a predominance of

“pleasure” over “pain”

He wrote in The Principles of Morals and Legislation:

Nature has placed mankind under the governance of two sovereign masters, pain and pleasure. It is for them alone to point out what we ought to do, as well as to determine what we shall do. On the one hand the standard of right and wrong, on the other the chain of causes and effects, are fastened to their throne. They govern us in all we do, in all we say, in all we think …

No pain, no game?

I am certainly more motivated by avoiding pain. My intuition picks up „red signals“ before can talk my brain ( come on, be real, its common sense etc. ) to suffocate them. There will be no gain for me, if i put myself into

toxic action or environment

i just freeze.   I am totally

motivated to be able to work alone in the flow

almost in the meditation zone while being creative: writing, planning, crafting, designing. Its working its best

when all „pain“ factors and distractions are eliminated

No unpayed bills, no hurry, kids happy,  to name the biggest ones for me. To achieve that i learned

HOW to create this

for myself.

Working from home for the last 4 years for a call center as a customer service agent  was pretty sweet and i wanted to go

to the next level

I had to eliminate 2 pains: i couldn’t choose my working hours, i  couldn’t impact my income.

I did it by learning strategies how to build any business online, how to promote it and i built multiple income streams at the same time i was still learning, it was not as hard as i was told, on the contrary i

found it fun!

Here is what i have learned from this.

It is  possible to achieve your  goal without this pain part!

  • I meet a lot of people every day!
  • It`s only when i log in
  • Surround yourself with the like minded people
  • It` such a bliss to be/work/live  in the flow
  • I can be creative and learn new things, i never get bored
  • now it`s much more easier to be focused and  to keep things real
  • good pressure is what i love


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